Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Has someone cheated because of Bipolar Disorder?

Bipolar can frequently cause hypersexuality but that does not mean that they will automatically cheat. I am Bipolar and in a group with many others... some of them have been happily married for decades and never cheated. But yes, some do. I also have hypersexuality but have rarely cheated.... my boyfriend is very accomodating when I am hypersexual... we sometimes meet at hotels at lunchtime (It's fun. :)) and he is very willing to significantly increase our sex life. We also spice things up quite a bit.... she will be more adventurous in addition to wanting more frequent sex... He also took me shoopping at an adult toy store because when hypersexual I seriously want sex 10 times a day and he just can't keep up.... So basically he did some thing to accomodate me and I take care of myself the rest of the time..... The on time I cheated the guy I was seeing was very threatened and intimidated by my sexual behavior.... he did not want to have sex more, nor did he want to spice things up and he took it very personally when I would masturbate, claiming that he must not be a good lover if I had to masturbate..... I cheated. You have to understand that hypersexuality is not a choice we make but there are things you can do to accomodate her until her sex drive comes back to normal.... whatever you do don't try to make her feel guilty about her needs... go with it.

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